I watched \u201cThe Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed\u201d on headphones, in my room, trying to stay out of sight while my roommate had a date over. This is, if not the ideal way to experience this film, at least an appropriate one. Joanna Arnow\u2019s second feature is a symphony of ambient embarrassment, whose movements are structured around the various men with whom the protagonist, Ann (Arnow), has relationships of varying length and ambivalence. Within these movements, Arnow hits uncomfortable notes that range from cutting corporate indignities to the ritualized abjection of erotic humiliation.\u00a0<\/p>\n
The story unfolds in a series of dryly comic vignettes, beginning with a supremely awkward scene where a completely nude Ann rubs herself up against a fully clothed lover, telling him how hot it is that he doesn\u2019t care about her pleasure. It\u2019s not clear how much of this is an intentional kink scene and how much is Ann talking herself into interpreting his indifference as erotic. That\u2019s the case with many of her interactions with Allen (Scott Cohen), with whom she\u2019s had a casual BDSM relationship for nine years but who can\u2019t (or won\u2019t) remember basic facts about her life.\u00a0<\/p>\n
There\u2019s a larger element of self-imposed humiliation in the way Arnow exposes herself on camera, both emotionally and physically, in this film. (In the tradition of Chantal Akerman [and, yes, Lena Dunham], Arnow performs all of her own sex scenes in this movie.) This is how her character gets off, and if there\u2019s any element of autobiography at play here\u2014which there presumably is, considering that her\u00a0parents co-star as themselves\u2014then the filmmaker must be getting off on it a little bit, too. It\u2019s a testament to the skill with which Arnow manipulates tone that this comes across as just another nuance on the spectrum of the film\u2019s uncomfortable emotions rather than a creepy imposition.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Although the scenarios in this film are mortifyingly realistic\u2014this is the most truthful depiction of BDSM I\u2019ve ever seen in a movie, full stop\u2014the dialogue is written to be pithier and more stylized than the way the average person talks. This can be jarring at times, but it appears to be a deliberate stylistic choice in that\u00a0Arnow is distancing herself from the material via her deadpan delivery and painful exchanges\u00a0while simultaneously exposing the most sensitive parts of herself on screen. (Ironically, a scene where Ann sings passages from Les <\/em>Mis\u00e9rables<\/em> by heart is the most vulnerable moment in a film that also features extensive full-frontal nudity.)\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I watched \u201cThe Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed\u201d on headphones, in my room, trying to stay out of sight while my roommate had a date over. This is, if not the ideal way to experience this film, at least an appropriate one. Joanna Arnow\u2019s second feature is a symphony of ambient …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[33],"class_list":["post-1330","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-comedy-movies","tag-comedy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/us.celebrity2000.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1330","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/us.celebrity2000.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/us.celebrity2000.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/us.celebrity2000.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/us.celebrity2000.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1330"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/us.celebrity2000.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1330\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/us.celebrity2000.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/us.celebrity2000.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/us.celebrity2000.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}